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10 Ways to Prevent Losing in Life

No one likes to lose, and chances are, at some point in your life you will experience some form of loss. However, there are ways to prevent these negative situations from happening in the first place! The following 10 tips will help you avoid loss in your life.

1) Accept your fate

There is a popular saying that goes it’s better to regret doing something, than to regret not doing it. While some may disagree with its validity, there is no doubt that sometimes it is best not to take a chance because failing can really hurt your life. However, if you accept that failure is an inevitability for everyone, then you won’t mind as much when it happens.

2) Know when to take action

Sometimes all you need is a nudge. Sometimes all you need is a little push and reassurance that, yes, you are making progress—just not as quickly as you’d like. These days we have easy access to information and comparisons through social media.

3) Don’t procrastinate

Many people put off doing their taxes, cleaning their house, writing thank-you notes—or even exercise. Procrastination can be devastating to your long-term success and happiness. Don’t wait until it’s too late; take care of these tasks as soon as possible. If you don’t like doing them, ask someone else for help (like a spouse or family member) or hire a professional. And never forget that procrastination is often caused by fear: What are you afraid of? What are your biggest concerns? Are they valid? Why or why not? How might you overcome those fears? And how will that change your life? By addressing your fears head on, you may find yourself with more time than ever before. The key is simply to start—even if it feels scary at first.

4) Find ways of overcoming negative thinking

When you focus on negative thoughts, you’re not giving yourself a chance to be positive. Our mindset is an essential component of our outlook and attitude toward life. Positive thinkers are more likely to enjoy life and make progress in achieving their goals than those who spend their time thinking negatively. Negative thoughts can become a self-fulfilling prophecy: If you think you’ll fail, there’s a good chance that you will. So instead of focusing on what could go wrong, try to focus on what could go right. Instead of dwelling on your problems, find solutions for them. 

And when something does go wrong, which it inevitably will, try not to get down about it; instead, look for ways to move forward from it. Learn how to turn failure into success by taking advantage of every opportunity to learn from mistakes and making adjustments as needed. It’s also important to be honest with yourself so that you can address any areas where improvement is needed. For example, if you don’t believe in yourself or if you feel like your efforts aren’t being rewarded, then it might be worth looking at why you feel that way and working through those issues so they don’t hold you back anymore.

5) Think positively about life and all its challenges

One of our greatest strengths can also be one of our greatest weaknesses. Optimism opens our eyes and hearts to new possibilities—and leaves us vulnerable if they don’t pan out. How we deal with setbacks and failures makes all the difference. When an outcome you had hoped for doesn’t materialize, think about what you have learned from it. Maybe you can still see something positive from your loss or setback? Did it teach you a lesson that will help you win next time? Or did it at least bring you closer to others who are supportive? Remember that there is no failure only feedback. There is always something valuable to learn when life hands us a challenge. The key is to keep moving forward rather than dwelling on what has happened in the past.

6) Learn from your mistakes

The best way to improve is to analyze your mistakes and identify ways you can do better next time. Evaluate what went wrong, why it happened, and how you could have done better. Then make plans for improvement—what will you do differently next time? Practice preventative measures by thinking through every possible thing that could go wrong. For example, a critical aspect of fundraising is Plan B; have contingency plans ready for what you’ll do if things don’t go as planned. Don’t let setbacks get you down; use them as opportunities to learn and grow.

7) Keep moving forward

Just because things aren’t going well right now doesn’t mean they won’t turn around soon. Instead of focusing on what went wrong, try directing your energy toward a positive outcome. We all lose sometimes, but we can keep from losing ourselves by refocusing our thoughts on more positive outcomes. And even if you do end up feeling discouraged, you can always take solace in knowing that when one door closes another one opens—and that it is never too late to start over again. (See also: How to Make Failure Your Greatest Asset) Don’t hold grudges: Holding onto anger and resentment keeps us focused on past mistakes instead of looking forward. Letting go means forgiving yourself and others for mistakes made along the way and learning from them so you don’t repeat them in future endeavors. When faced with a loss, ask yourself whether holding onto anger will benefit anyone involved or make anything better; if not, let it go.

8) Get enough sleep

Sleep deprivation takes a serious toll on mental health, mood, and energy levels. Not getting enough shut-eye puts you at risk for chronic diseases like diabetes, stroke, hypertension, and heart disease. Sleep deprived individuals are also more likely to have problems concentrating and be less productive. Aim for about seven hours of sleep every night! If you need help falling asleep or staying asleep, try natural remedies such as warm milk or melatonin. 

Also make sure your bedroom is dark, quiet, and cool—ideal sleeping conditions for quality rest. You can also practice relaxation techniques before bedtime to calm your mind and body down so that you’re able to get some zzz’s. And avoid using electronic devices just before bedtime; instead, opt for an old-fashioned book (that won’t keep you up all night). And remember: Everyone needs some downtime; if it seems like you’re always struggling with insomnia, talk with your doctor about potential underlying causes.

9) Avoid judgementalism

Being overly judgmental can lead to some unfortunate consequences. You may get caught up in assumptions about other people and overlook opportunities for new experiences and relationships. More importantly, you’ll develop a critical attitude toward yourself that will hold you back from reaching your full potential. The key is avoiding harsh judgment of others while also striving not to be hard on yourself when things go wrong. Rather than focusing on what happened or why it happened, put an effort into moving forward and learning from your mistakes. If you find yourself stuck in negative thought patterns, try surrounding yourself with positive people who are supportive and encouraging. That way, their positivity can rub off on you! 

When we judge ourselves harshly, we often create feelings of inadequacy and shame. We start believing there’s something fundamentally wrong with us as a person which causes us to fail at various things. However, many times failure isn’t due to character flaws—it’s simply because our expectations were unrealistic or circumstances beyond our control got in our way.

10) Ask for help when you need it

Don’t be afraid to ask for help! It is a sign of strength and not weakness. No matter how great you are at what you do, there will always be people out there who know more than you do about one aspect or another.